Honestly,
I hate attaching to others, I have experienced it once and don't want it to hit my heart and head anymore, but I still learn until current.... Indeed, it's part of the change in life and I started to fully accept it. At the end I just realized, I am in the process of growing to be strongest emotionally and mentally. That's because of change ...
I learned something…
Nothing lasts forever in the world except change. Change is Eternal, are we always aware and ready?
Most of us are walking around consciously thinking we are living in a universe where things are constantly changing and influxes. However, when we link this idea with the proposition that under the veneer of our lives is the struggle for our lives take. The conflict between living in a world where things are constantly changing and our feeling to be grounded is reflected in our thoughts, emotional states, and our self-identity actions.
Without a change, surely this life will feel mediocre and stuck.
Furthermore, whenever we experience a threat, the response can be thought of as a threat to the identity of the amorphous feeling of groundlessness and dissociation. The very idea of identity in our desire to be rooted in the world to see ourselves like this and not that. The challenge for many of us is how to live acknowledgment of the flow of constant change. Accepting impermanence, however, can lead to a life with less internal conflict and open the door to a deeper level of self.
This can be free from identities that are always external and uncontrollable. The risk of change through change may not actually occur. If we are too uncomfortable to go through the course, we will lose the message and we will accompany the transformative effect. Turning too quickly away from what changes have to offer may cause us to learn valuable insights, or be gifted by a powerful lesson. The key here is lifelong lessons in everyday life. When we have accepted and mastered that concept, it's far easier to adjust lives according to the knowledge and trust that we are being carried in its flow. It is also amazing how we have our own ability to recover easily or change.
Mahatma Gandhi famously said, "Be the Change, You must want to see in the world." In other words, although life changes are inevitable, we can also initiate personal change so we can rise to the challenge and become a bigger and better person as a result. I always said to myself every meditate in the early morning that "I open my mind and heart to new possibilities but I have to avoid expectation and attachment to others. It all depends on you”, so I hope to be more ready to face change that happens in my life that day.
Some of us are able to jump more quickly than others. I have experienced a change in my life and go for it with some life lessons I got from it. Indeed, through change, we have a real chance to grow into something better so we can grow to be a better human being.
So from that, it is important to always train ourselves (practice, gain more knowledge, and be ready) to face changes that are continuously and continuously approaching. As a result of the changes we will continue to face, it is important for each of us to begin to realize that we must be prepared and accept it as a process in this life. Avoid attachment to avoid conflict. Especially conflicts with ourselves.
Loss, achievement, pleasure, and sadness will definitely come over, but come back again how we react to it whether we dissolve in it or face it and realize that it is natural because change is the one and only permanent in this world. We as a Balinese believe in karma and everything happens for reasons added with my favorite film “3 Idiot” which I use their magic words “All is Well” to enjoy the show of change because it can lead to being mindful.
